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Marilyn Ruth
Kendrick
May 12, 1946 – March 9, 2026
Marilyn Ruth Kendrick, affectionately known as “Ms. Bakersfield” and lovingly called “Ms. Wasco,” depending on who was speaking of her, was a cherished mother, grandmother, wife, aunt, niece—and truly so much more. She transitioned from life to glory on March 9, 2026, at approximately 10:45 p.m.
Marilyn was born on May 12, 1946, in Texarkana, Texas, to John Henry Crossland and Ruth V. Crossland. At the age of five, she made her way to Bakersfield, California, where she was raised on Elda Avenue in the Crystal Heights area of Southeast Bakersfield—a place that would become the foundation of her story.
She attended Casa Loma Elementary School, Golden State Junior High School (now Sequoia Middle School), and her beloved South High School. During her high school years, Marilyn was active and full of life—playing softball and basketball, proudly serving as a Rebelette, and participating in various social clubs. Even then, her presence was felt.
Marilyn gave her life to Christ at a young age, beginning a faith journey that would guide her for the rest of her life. She was a member of Northrup Street Church of Christ under Brother Robinson’s leadership. Once she relocated to Santa Monica she became a part of the 17th Street Church of Christ in Santa Monica, California, under the leadership of Brother Dyson. After returning to Bakersfield, she returned back to Northrup Street Church of Christ .She later became a faithful and devoted member of Central Church of Christ for over 30 years. There, she poured into the church community through Sunday School, the Women’s Circle, and countless acts of service. She traveled across California with children in tow to attend church events and became known for her thoughtful care packages—especially her famous baked sugar cookies sent with love to college students.
In her later years, Marilyn continued her walk of faith as a dedicated member of Lily of the Valley Church of God in Christ under the leadership of Elder Charles Barefield.
Marilyn’s life was rooted in service. She was a passionate advocate for social justice and community care, working in the Migrant Ministry Program where she supported the children of farmworkers in labor camps. During her time in Santa Monica, she remained actively engaged in volunteer work at Ocean Park Preschool and Washington Elementary School and supported efforts advocating for Title I programs in public education.
After returning to Bakersfield in the mid-1970s, Marilyn continued to show up for her community in meaningful ways. She was involved with organizations such as the NAACP, Urban League, Bakersfield City Schools, Kern High School District, the Black History Parade, Buds of Spring, and the Bakersfield Community Choir under the leadership of Vernon Chappel. Wherever there was a need, Marilyn was present.
Her professional life reflected that same commitment. She began as an aide with Bakersfield City School District, later earning her Associate degree in Early Childhood Education. She went on to serve as a Head Start teacher for many years before opening and operating her own daycare for over a decade—helping shape and nurture generations of children.
Marilyn truly did not know a stranger. She carried a “can-do” spirit that defined how she moved through life. No challenge was too great—like a phoenix, she rose, time and time again. She found joy in baking, gardening, reading, and most of all, showing up for her family. If you called on Marilyn, she answered. If you needed her, she was there. Service wasn’t just something she did—it was who she was.
This was especially evident in the way she loved and supported her children. Whether volunteering in classrooms, showing up at band competitions and sporting events, or selling cookies and pies—whatever it took—Marilyn was there, giving her all without hesitation.
Her greatest joy was her family. She devoted her life to nurturing, guiding, and loving others, especially her 17 grandchildren, whom she spoke of often and with immense pride. Her great-grandchildren brought her deep happiness and continued to be a reflection of her legacy.
Marilyn leaves to cherish her memory her beloved husband of 56 years, Roland Kendrick, Jr.; her children, Yvonne D. Kendrick (Dennis), Alice F. Monudafie (Abdelali), Roland Kendrick III, and Charles E.C. Kendrick (Josie); her brother, James Crossland; and a host of nieces, nephews, extended family, and dear friends who will carry her love forward.
She was preceded in death by her parents, John Henry Crossland and Ruth V. Tyler; her great-aunt, Elva Fort; her brothers, Henry Crossland, Ted Crossland, Edward “T-Bone” Henderson, and Houston Earl “Sonny Boy” Battle; her sister, Evelyn Battle; her daughter, Karen L. Kendrick; and her grandsons, Michael Williams and Jordan Gregory Porter.
Marilyn’s life was a testament to faith, resilience, service, and unconditional love. Her presence filled rooms, her hands served tirelessly, and her heart gave freely. Though she will be deeply missed, the impact she made will continue to live on in every life she touched.
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